👉What would you tell your younger self?
This is a popular question & one I have asked my audience before too.
But due to how much I have evolved it’s not something I would now change.
You see every twist & turn has led me here.
And here is good!
Yes, I have made plenty of mistakes, had my fair share of failures, curve ball challenges, trauma & been pretty blinkered at times too.
But it has led me here.
If I went back & told me in my early twenties that store cards need paying back yes I might not have developed a relationship with the collections team of GE capital bank 😂 but importantly I wouldn’t have experienced the fear & worry that I support people with now.
If I hadn’t experienced lack I would not have half the tools I do to shift someone from a lack & scarcity mindset.
If I had known back then the simplicity of mastering my thoughts I wouldn’t have experienced the fear of public speaking, the crippling self-doubt of comparison & the price of always being the dependable, capable employee.
And if I hadn’t known this I wouldn’t know how best to support my clients. How powerful their conditioning is, how their mind will trick them & cruelly see them addicted to the things they don’t want rather than what they do.
If I had known back then how much of myself I gave away in relationships then my deep dive into clients identity wouldn’t even touch the surface & my coaching would not be as impactful as it is.
👉Every twist & turn led me here.
Maybe there is one thing I would share with my teenage self. The words of one of my mentors I have met along the way..
‘Everything always has been, is now & will be OK’
Although, honestly I think I would have shunned those words when I was in my darkest spots.
But now I see it & now I know it….
Each of those experiences led me here & using this learning to help myself & others means everything is OK. 💫